What might your lifedating life or otherwiselook like if you did it for the plot, infusing your perspective with both marvel and a good-humored confidence? Serena Kerrigans approachin her hugely popular Let’s Fucking Date with SFK Instagram Live and TikTok series, her live shows, and an haunting new vellum game by the same nameis as tightly funny as it is practical and resonant. Now part of the NBCUniversal Creator Accelerator program, the entrepreneur and performer is focused on growing her once enormous empire and, as ever, dating. Her sunny rule of three encourages dating three people at once to uplift confidence, and we can testify: It really works. Here, her favorite things, suitable for daters and nondaters alike.

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   goop Double-Sided Wand Vibrator

   Ive been masturbating since surpassing I could plane walk (whatyou didnt hump your coffee tables as a toddler?), so when it comes to vibrators, you bet I have opinions on my top picks. I love this one considering it makes me have orgasms that requite that scene in When Harry Met Sally a run for its money. You know the one. Lets just say my future boyfriend has some strong shoes to fill.

   
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   GOOPGLOW Cloudberry Exfoliating Jelly Cleanser

   The fact that Ive gone through two tubes of this tells you everything you need to know (trust me, empties are a rarity for me). Every time I wash my squatter with it, it’s like my skin has reached enlightenment and totally been reborn.

   
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   Nue Boob Tape

   Queens don’t need wardrobe malfunctionswe need everything in place, so our minds can concentrate on ruling the world and nothing else.

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   Freezing My Eggs

   Society loves to market single women as desperately searching for a partner, but has anyone considered that were rented chasing checks and not looking to settle for the yellowish minimum? While I want to have kids, I do not want to finger any pressure to follow a particular timeline, considering I have an empire to run.

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   STUDS Earrings

   When it comes to dating, sometimes you have to do it for the plotstep outside your repletion zone. Luckily for you, I designed a pair of earrings in collaboration with STUDS to help you do exactly that. The Max Pavé Hoopwhich comes in both silver and goldhas a subconscious message engraved on the inside: “Do it for the plot.” It’s a message from yourself, to yourself.

   
   SFK x STUDS Silver Max Pavé Hoop STUDS, $54 (for a pair)

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   Lets Fucking Date Card Game

   I created this game in my living room during lockdown, without creating the first Instagram Live reality show, Lets Fucking Date, where I went on virtual veiling dates with 50 men in under a year. (Still proudly single!) The game is split up into four sections: First Base, Second Base, Third Base, and Home Run. The higher the base, the hotter the question. I wanted to make a game where people felt well-appointed sharing their experiences, opinions, sexual preferences, and feelings, creating increasingly opportunity for intimacy. (And the weightier sex of their lives, too, duh.)

   
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   BeReal

   I know: another social media app? But what if I told you BeReal was the equivalent of having a photo diary? One photo a day to relate your life in a way that you never would on a increasingly public-facing photo app.

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   Mirror

   I have had my eye on this mirror for over a year. When it comes to your relationship with yourself, I created the SFK Mirror Challenge: I by no ways creted mirror affirmations, but I encourage my polity to talk to themselves in the mirror the same way they would hype up a weightier friend. This is one of the tools that have given me the conviction to pursue my dreams.

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   Heretic Dirty Suede

   If theres one thing that you want to be known for, its how good you smell. A spritz of this will make anyone want to lean a little closer.

   
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    Claimed Podcast

    Ive been listening to the Claimed podcast by Anna Rova to help me unlock my feminine energy on my untried AirPods Max (if Im not stoping Anti-Hero by Taylor Swift).